Inner Peace- A necessity in life...!!!

Anger on the face, irritation in the voice, sadness in the eyes and deep inside the soul that cries. This is what happens when you lose inner peace.
Many of us don't even realise when we come to face this state in life. We think its a normal and some external factors are just bothering us. Its true and most of the time it is because of someone else. The fact that life is cruel and so are the people is the one I personally believe to be very true.

The saddest part is its mostly because of "SOMEONE ELSE" that such a situation occurs.
The question that generally occurs to me is "Why is that we get so involved with others that their actions harm us ? " Its hard to answer this as we all are humans and all of us have feelings. But in some cases actions of some random people also end up disturbing us.

This is the time of retrospection when we need to set the priorities and make our own self understand that its us who has to control on who and how things affect us.
Never let the behaviour of others disturb the peace of your mind...!!! Your peace is what depends on yourself. Now the thought that comes in my mind is "how to keep your inner peace intact? " The best answer that cones to my mind is "IGNORE". Just ignore the things that doesn't matter in life and things that act as a distraction in your life. Its definitely not that easy but it surely is very important. The path to inner peace starts from this learning.
This takes time and a lot of time. Its a struggle in the beginning but it is very important. Start enjoying your own company and make sure you live it to the fullest and cherish it...!!!!

Words are mightier than Sword...!!!

Words often leads us into the unexpected and this is often true in case these words are written to describe one's feelings.

Often there are feelings that are hard to share with anyone. These may be the ones  of love, hurt, jealousy, care or something more intense that I am not aware of at present. These captivate us so badly at times that we chose a way to let these flow out and its none other than words. We write. Write just to let go from the pain that these feelings give us by staying within but does writing anything does justice to the real emotions behind it. Can we actually portray the feelings in our words properly?
I always felt that we do enough justice to our feelings by writing them out. But I just realized that writing something may give us freedom from the heaviness but if someone comes to read it and perceives it differently from the way we wrote it then it does pains more than ever.

I have often heard and read at places-
" Do not give explanations. Because your enemies wont believe it and your friends don't need it."
But if your friends only misunderstand your words, then wont a person feel the urge to give a proper explanation. And thus here comes once again the importance of words. The words we chose to explain or describe something needs to be chosen properly.
Simple things do get complicated when these words show their real magic. A simple thought can change the world often if it is illustrated using powerful words. Simple feelings can be twisted if improper words are used. A smooth going life can be devastated if your words are wrongly interpreted. Weird.. Isn't it? How just your words can change it all.

Strange is this world where the disclosure and sharing of feelings has become so hard that the feelings that come from deep within without thinking needs a lot of thought when it comes to displaying them.