Smile is just a message away...!!!

Tired and restless, she laid still on the bed, glaring at the unknown sky, waiting for the dreams to take her in their world. The night was peaceful. Millions of thoughts clouded her vision and her mind drifted from one to another in just few seconds. Controlling her mind somehow, she waved off all the thoughts. Just as she closed her eyes, she heard a beep of the phone. Someone had messaged her. Not sure whether she wanted to pick her cell and check, she left it there for few moments. After few deep breaths, her hand moved across the bed, to pick the phone. There lay a message on the inbox. Wondering what was so important for him to message her at this hour of the night. 

Without opening it, she kept the phone back. Did she really want to know what was in there? Was it a happy message? Will the content shatter her? Many random thoughts again dashed into her mind from the still unread message. Possibilities for what worst the message could be and also what best lay ahead. The past experiences always made her think the worst of situations and be prepared. On thinking from all negative, her mind asked her to check the message. 

She gathered the courage and slowly picked the phone to read it, prepared for the worst. It felt like ages and when she finally read it, her face lit up with a bright smile. :D

She lay on her back chatting for hours and it was the chirping of the birds which made her realise it was morning and there was no sign of tiredness on her face. The only thing to be notice was a delightful and pleasing smile.

How small things in life bother us too much. The digital life has changed the way we perceive things. Communication ways are many but communication itself is so difficult. Each of us perceive the things we read and listen in different ways and that becomes our understanding of it.

A unexpected message from someone can make the day and at times we end up waiting hours for a message from someone to just check on us. So why wait to be unexpected? Just pick the phone and message/call that someone who you are expecting or might be expecting you and trust me, the smile will melt the heart.

Teenage Confusions...!!!

Why is marriage considered the final step of any relationship?

Is it really important to give a name to a relationship?

Cant a girl and boy be friends?

The list to such questions is never ending and many youngsters tend to think on these lines at least one in there lifespan. Alas, often they don't get the answers.

Relations, love, infatuations, etc. are very common terms heard where one is not sure (most of us) which is the correct path for him or her when it comes to taking the personal decisions. Peer pressure, professional pressure, family pressure, all these also come along and hence making it even more difficult to have personal thoughts.

When asked, "What do you wish to see in your life partner?", the answers are not every convincing and it is mostly on what is seen in movies or read in books. The reality of what we expect is far from the answers given. It takes a lot time, personal space, understanding oneself which can make us actually have some opinion on our life partners.

Some may not agree and might say that my life-partner is my school sweetheart or my college darling, well yes, that can happen too and that also mostly is the result of the endless phone conversations, small letters, notebook notes that would have been passed multiple times and knowingly unknowingly, the two people understood what and who can make them happy and that of course, is the benefit of long invested time :D

Marriage or tie-ing a knot is probably important in Indian society (love or arrange :P) but what matters is the happiness and well-being of two individuals. We live in the modern world and tend to meet hundreds of people, some actually leave a footprint in our hearts, some become our friends, many just get lost in the crowd and few becomes our best buddies. Named or un-named any relations we make in our life, teaches us something, it uncovers a part or a quality of us which would have otherwise taken a long long time.

Being in the same age group, many questions do haunt me at times and I haven't got the answers to many of them, all I would say is go with the flow and discover yourself. After all,  

"Loving yourself isn't Vanity, it is SANITY...!!!"

Unspoken Love...!!!

Eyes closed.. cold wind touching the cheeks.. hair flying up with the wind... ears becoming numb with the chilling wind but the whole body has the warmth of the beloved's hug. 

Slowly the bike keeps moving up and down the hill as he drives. The more colder the wind gets, the tighter is her hug. She breaths in the air and turns and kisses his neck. The touch of her lips on the back of his neck sends out a shivers down his spine. He keeps driving. Her touch giving him more confidence to cross the chill. He keeps driving even though he is numb with the cold and her weight. 

She feels a drop of rain on her cheek, it slowly moves down her cheek and clings to the side of her lips. She licks it up and taste the first drop of rain. As they move forward more droplets fall over them bringing them even more close and their embrace becomes even more strong.

She wants to stop. He doesn't want to slow down.

She whispers to him. He nodes.

He slows down. Her grip becomes more firm.

They approach a small corner tea stall and he finally stops. She gets down and runs to find shelter. He joins her. She clings to him. He holds her tight.

Sipping the tea, their eyes meet. 

Lots of unspoken words.. many unexplained feelings..!!!

She is cold, he is tired. 

They hug each other to never leave.

They share a lot in that one minute. The embrace said it all, explained why they were together and what they had between them.

A lot can be spoken without words. To express you don't always need words.

" Silence speaks when words can't..!!!"

Feel a bit more...!!!

So True..!!!

Most of the problems and pain people feel is because they think too much about it and end up in a pain that gets unbearable for them to bear.

The world is beautiful place to live in. There are lots of things that each of us face in our day to day lives. The problem comes when we let these things get over our minds and create a place for them into our thoughts. 

Our thoughts determine our state of living...!!!

The more negative we think, the more we trouble ourself.

The more positive we think, the more happy we are.

I believe that if a person takes out 10 mins a day to feel the moment in which he/she lives and just cherish that moment to its best then its enough to keep out of stress. Slowly, if we can make it a habit to think less and feel more then there would be no unnecessary pain. 

The morning sun, the sunset, the moon each have its own beauty and each signify itself. But if they trouble themselves by thinking about the shine of others they themselves will lose what they have to give. The best of us lies when we feel and keep ourselves in the present.

A day well spent...!! :)

Its a bright day.. awesome weather... just the perfect one to go on a walk and feel the air. So I just thought to tighten up my clothes and go out for a little stroll. 

Out on the roads I see a puddles of water.. splashing into them just reminds me of my childhood days when jumping into them used to the most ultimate fun. Walking ahead I come to halt at the signal which is on my way to a park which was my destination. Looking around I felt how our lives have changed. 

How earlier we use to wait for the monsoons and the rains so that we can feel the rain.. feel the drops.. but now we wait for the rains to stop so that we can move out to complete our unfinished and pending tasks. How earlier we use to love getting drenched in rain and now he wait to avoid getting drenched. How a sunny day use to bring positive energies and now sunny days make us stay indoors. 

Well... leaving all my thoughts aside I walked along the road to reach my destination. To my astonishment I only saw all elderly people and just a few teenagers. Some of them were in mid of some yoga while others were busy in their own thoughts. I kept walking in the park to observe more people and enjoy the beauty of the weather while I rarely get to feel in the weekdays, when I am caught inside in the office with artificial air.

Moving on I decided to get seated on bench from where I could catch the glimpse of mostly all the people in that park. 

Being there for some time made me realize many more things. Starting with the change in the life in few years to the beauty of the weather and how I miss it. Going down the memory lane, I felt a bit nostalgic but I tried coming out of that and wanted to cherish the moment I am in.

An hour passed and I just didn't realize it. It started drizzling and each drop made me feel peaceful. More than I had felt in last few days. I just loved it and on the way back to my place I only felt it was a day well spent.

PS:  The motive of this post is to emphasize on the need of spending time amidst nature.

Is it really an act of maturity ??

The above image and its Quote is something that mostly all of us our familiar to and most of us go through that face of life.

Trying to hide your feelings and pretending like nothing is wrong...!!!

It might be considered as an act of maturity by many but I personally don't feel that. If we are mature, we will not be hiding our feelings instead we'll be facing them. 

Go ahead people.. face it straight...!!!

Don't neglect and ignore..!!!

Cherish it..!!!

True Love has NO Ending...!!!

Every love story does not have a happy ending. Some love stories are meant to stay incomplete.

Each one of us have fallen in love, love that we accept or love that we maynot accept. Sometimes we have the courage to say that it was love and sometimes we don’t even understand this amazing feeling and leave it buried deep down in our hearts and never unveil the reality.

I personally never could understand what LOVE has been for me. 

Is the feeling of caring for someone unconditionally a part of love or being jealous seeing that one person with someone else. 

Is it smiling just at the thoughts of that person or is it in grinning stupidly looking at them. 

Is it in praying for them when they are away and always wishing good for that person.

Is it in silently observing them from far away and taking away eyes if you are caught. 

There are this enormous list that confuses me. Well whatever it is.. it is something that surely is beautiful. All the small things that you tend to admire about one person openly or secretly is anyways beautiful. 

It is actually amazing to think how people change when they sense the presence of love around them. Love is always surrounding us but it takes us lots of time to sense and feel it and when we realise it we seem to be lost in the magic it does on us. Things that we never have even thought start happening in our lives. Days and nights seem to be colourful and beauty of everything is beyond what words can describe. 

The true eternal love doesn’t need anything to stay alive. Its meant to be there forever and always. Distance or togetherness doesn’t affect it. It just make it stronger and true love is a strength. 

I believe Love only makes us stronger and more stern. If we have the courage to love someone more than ourself, then there is nothing that cannot be achieved with that courage. Its only a matter of time when people start believing the power of Love. 

And yes, each love story may not have a happy ending but to make it perfect depends only on us. 

LOVE is bliss and people who have been in love will surely agree with me.

It all just reminds me of beautiful song by Boyzone:

You’re the air that I breathe

Girl you’re all that I need

And I wanna thank you, lady

You’re the words that I read

You’re the light that I see

And your love is all that I need

Just like a castle of sand

Girl, I almost let love slip right out of my hands

And just like a flower needs rain

I will stand by your side through the joy and the pain

Is it LOVE??

Recently some events and realizations made me think the difference between LOVE and LUST.
These two 4 letters made me think a lot for nearly two long days now and finally i decided to write something on it.

LOVE is something that bounds us to someone (purity involved) and LUST is something that wants the other person to be bound to you.
If I love someone, it has to be unconditional. I cannot expect the other person to love me too. And the day i feel it a necessity for the other person to love me the same way then that day this LOVE converts into LUST.


Love is never based on person's looks or who a person presents itself and you never have a image to maintain as what you are is only what you show. On the other side, Lust is somewhat based on physical attraction and nothing to do with feelings.

Love and Lust is most misunderstood and thus the result is a huge disaster. If the relation is based on lust then somewhere at some point of time the gut feeling arises speaking of DANGER. Thus, to differentiate the feelings is very important and also a challenging task as "Love is purity of heart and Lust is just a demand..!!"
It always take time to build love but lust comes in moments. And anything that takes time is worth maintaining. Right?

Words are mightier than Sword...!!!

Words often leads us into the unexpected and this is often true in case these words are written to describe one's feelings.

Often there are feelings that are hard to share with anyone. These may be the ones  of love, hurt, jealousy, care or something more intense that I am not aware of at present. These captivate us so badly at times that we chose a way to let these flow out and its none other than words. We write. Write just to let go from the pain that these feelings give us by staying within but does writing anything does justice to the real emotions behind it. Can we actually portray the feelings in our words properly?
I always felt that we do enough justice to our feelings by writing them out. But I just realized that writing something may give us freedom from the heaviness but if someone comes to read it and perceives it differently from the way we wrote it then it does pains more than ever.

I have often heard and read at places-
" Do not give explanations. Because your enemies wont believe it and your friends don't need it."
But if your friends only misunderstand your words, then wont a person feel the urge to give a proper explanation. And thus here comes once again the importance of words. The words we chose to explain or describe something needs to be chosen properly.
Simple things do get complicated when these words show their real magic. A simple thought can change the world often if it is illustrated using powerful words. Simple feelings can be twisted if improper words are used. A smooth going life can be devastated if your words are wrongly interpreted. Weird.. Isn't it? How just your words can change it all.

Strange is this world where the disclosure and sharing of feelings has become so hard that the feelings that come from deep within without thinking needs a lot of thought when it comes to displaying them.