Inner Peace- A necessity in life...!!!

Anger on the face, irritation in the voice, sadness in the eyes and deep inside the soul that cries. This is what happens when you lose inner peace.
Many of us don't even realise when we come to face this state in life. We think its a normal and some external factors are just bothering us. Its true and most of the time it is because of someone else. The fact that life is cruel and so are the people is the one I personally believe to be very true.

The saddest part is its mostly because of "SOMEONE ELSE" that such a situation occurs.
The question that generally occurs to me is "Why is that we get so involved with others that their actions harm us ? " Its hard to answer this as we all are humans and all of us have feelings. But in some cases actions of some random people also end up disturbing us.

This is the time of retrospection when we need to set the priorities and make our own self understand that its us who has to control on who and how things affect us.
Never let the behaviour of others disturb the peace of your mind...!!! Your peace is what depends on yourself. Now the thought that comes in my mind is "how to keep your inner peace intact? " The best answer that cones to my mind is "IGNORE". Just ignore the things that doesn't matter in life and things that act as a distraction in your life. Its definitely not that easy but it surely is very important. The path to inner peace starts from this learning.
This takes time and a lot of time. Its a struggle in the beginning but it is very important. Start enjoying your own company and make sure you live it to the fullest and cherish it...!!!!

Unspoken Love...!!!

Eyes closed.. cold wind touching the cheeks.. hair flying up with the wind... ears becoming numb with the chilling wind but the whole body has the warmth of the beloved's hug. 

Slowly the bike keeps moving up and down the hill as he drives. The more colder the wind gets, the tighter is her hug. She breaths in the air and turns and kisses his neck. The touch of her lips on the back of his neck sends out a shivers down his spine. He keeps driving. Her touch giving him more confidence to cross the chill. He keeps driving even though he is numb with the cold and her weight. 

She feels a drop of rain on her cheek, it slowly moves down her cheek and clings to the side of her lips. She licks it up and taste the first drop of rain. As they move forward more droplets fall over them bringing them even more close and their embrace becomes even more strong.

She wants to stop. He doesn't want to slow down.

She whispers to him. He nodes.

He slows down. Her grip becomes more firm.

They approach a small corner tea stall and he finally stops. She gets down and runs to find shelter. He joins her. She clings to him. He holds her tight.

Sipping the tea, their eyes meet. 

Lots of unspoken words.. many unexplained feelings..!!!

She is cold, he is tired. 

They hug each other to never leave.

They share a lot in that one minute. The embrace said it all, explained why they were together and what they had between them.

A lot can be spoken without words. To express you don't always need words.

" Silence speaks when words can't..!!!"

Feel a bit more...!!!

So True..!!!

Most of the problems and pain people feel is because they think too much about it and end up in a pain that gets unbearable for them to bear.

The world is beautiful place to live in. There are lots of things that each of us face in our day to day lives. The problem comes when we let these things get over our minds and create a place for them into our thoughts. 

Our thoughts determine our state of living...!!!

The more negative we think, the more we trouble ourself.

The more positive we think, the more happy we are.

I believe that if a person takes out 10 mins a day to feel the moment in which he/she lives and just cherish that moment to its best then its enough to keep out of stress. Slowly, if we can make it a habit to think less and feel more then there would be no unnecessary pain. 

The morning sun, the sunset, the moon each have its own beauty and each signify itself. But if they trouble themselves by thinking about the shine of others they themselves will lose what they have to give. The best of us lies when we feel and keep ourselves in the present.

A day well spent...!! :)

Its a bright day.. awesome weather... just the perfect one to go on a walk and feel the air. So I just thought to tighten up my clothes and go out for a little stroll. 

Out on the roads I see a puddles of water.. splashing into them just reminds me of my childhood days when jumping into them used to the most ultimate fun. Walking ahead I come to halt at the signal which is on my way to a park which was my destination. Looking around I felt how our lives have changed. 

How earlier we use to wait for the monsoons and the rains so that we can feel the rain.. feel the drops.. but now we wait for the rains to stop so that we can move out to complete our unfinished and pending tasks. How earlier we use to love getting drenched in rain and now he wait to avoid getting drenched. How a sunny day use to bring positive energies and now sunny days make us stay indoors. 

Well... leaving all my thoughts aside I walked along the road to reach my destination. To my astonishment I only saw all elderly people and just a few teenagers. Some of them were in mid of some yoga while others were busy in their own thoughts. I kept walking in the park to observe more people and enjoy the beauty of the weather while I rarely get to feel in the weekdays, when I am caught inside in the office with artificial air.

Moving on I decided to get seated on bench from where I could catch the glimpse of mostly all the people in that park. 

Being there for some time made me realize many more things. Starting with the change in the life in few years to the beauty of the weather and how I miss it. Going down the memory lane, I felt a bit nostalgic but I tried coming out of that and wanted to cherish the moment I am in.

An hour passed and I just didn't realize it. It started drizzling and each drop made me feel peaceful. More than I had felt in last few days. I just loved it and on the way back to my place I only felt it was a day well spent.

PS:  The motive of this post is to emphasize on the need of spending time amidst nature.

We learn from failures.. Not from success...!!!

Try.. try.. until you succeed...!!!
We all learn, we are meant to learn and we only learn from failures. Failures act as stepping stones in life. Mistakes we do once teach us hundreds of lessons.
I look around and see lots of people depressed or demotivated by failures. They give up. They don't want to try again. They take their steps and accept failure as their destiny. Its so heart-breaking to give up your dreams and accept something that you never thought of.
Every champion faces challenges. Even stars cant shine without darkness. Our struggles and pain is what makes us cherish the success even more. The spirit of never giving up is what makes us stand out.
Each failure gives us a chance of introspection. We get any opportunity to understand our own self in a better way and making the best use of it.

“Rise and rise again until lambs become lions” 
― Robin Hood

Never Give Up..!!!

All of us have hard times in our life. It may be related to career, business, relations or anything else. These hard times depress us and even may make us feel that are life is unworthy. But it is really so?
If we are unable to run, its okay, at least we can walk.
We need to cherish what we are able to do and always keep the spirit of keep trying. The day we end hope is the end where everything finished, it is thus the day where life ends and where we need to go in depression.
To add to this thought, here is an amazing quote and always inspires me-

Today is a Present..!! Live It..!!

The past is an experience,

present is an experiment and

future is an expectation.

These words have a deep meaning that one needs to soon realise in life.

Our life has its past, future and a present. The worry of past and future always tends to destroy the present which is a beautiful gift. No matter how bitter experiences we may have had, it can never destroy our present till we give it the power ourselves.

Incidents, people and things of the past should always be kept in the past and their thoughts and presence earlier should not make us regret the present we live in. The expectation of something is always a source of disappointment ( as i mentioned in a earlier post too ), so the best of all is just live in the present and make the best out of it and worthy enough to cherish.

Life rewards you unconditionally but you need to deserving for it. If you don’t know the meaning between past and present then you can never understand the future. If you cant perceive your gifts properly then what is the point of them.Beauty of life can be felt only when we live it. 

“If you live in the fear of the future because of what happened in the past, you’ll end up losing what you have in the present…!!! “

Keep Moving.. Keep Learning..!!!

All of us dream of things that we want in our lives and also imagine a world of our dreams. We believe that life will some day give us things that we want and expect. We dream, we hope and we live.  Often these dreams may be unrealistic but we still dream of them. But to understand what the real world is all about we need to move out of our comfort zones and analyze the world. We need to take steps that lead us to learning and experiencing new things.

Well, I took the same step and relocated. New city, new people, new environment, new things and definitely new experiences. Life is all about realizing and learning. Isn't it?  Away from home, family and friends it becomes difficult to manage things initially but it is just a phase where we take time to settle but these are good learning days of life and here I am learning lots of things. Learning to be independent and manage myself that i thought would be easy but its not that easy. :P
Now here I am, 2 weeks in a new town somewhat happy and somewhat sad. But I will surely make it a great learning experience. Make moments. Live life and make it worth living. Life's amazing if you know how to make it amazing. Life's worth making realization if you know how to analyze and realize.

Finally, I would just like to add that Dream as much as you can. You never know when they just come live. :D

Its Only about Realization...!!!

Often we come to realize that things are not coming in the way we want them to be and feel depressed at the thought of it. We always are in a state of mind where we wish our past to be different and always wish for some things to happen in future. But life is what we live now. Its far beyond the dilemma of past and future. Its all about just today. We need to accept the past and also embrace the future with whatever it brings on us. The person we are today is just because of what we have seen and gone through in the past. Things are never to make us suffer, instead they redirect us to something far better than we can even think of at that particular moment.

Its never the end but its always about the path and journey to reach that end that needs to be cherished and believe me when you do look at your past, you will surely realize that everything that happened was to redirect you to something better.