Lesson learned in daily life..!!!

Sitting in office in my cubicle with headsets plugged in reminds me a lot of things today. Many incidences come randomly in my thoughts and I wish to write all of them down and get the best out of each. Its not possible though as I have few tasks to complete. But I definately got a good lesson from the series of recent events.
We all go through extreme and various conditions and meet a variety of people. Each person has its own qualities. But some of things mayn’t be what we expect to deal with in normal daily life. I too met one such person dealing with whom pissed me off initially but it has given me a lot of understanding about my self and human behaviour.
I believe that most of us get annoyed if some pokes his nose in our work constantly, if someone screws down your work, if someone affects our capabilities and raises a finger on us (if its not for a good) and a lot of other things that effects our peace of mind. This might be personal or professional but it does impact us a lot. 

I have generally heard that position brings calmness in people. The higher you go, the softer you become.
You tend to understand people and your experiences makes you calmer and peaceful.
but what if the case is extremely opposite. I don’t tend to point at anyone but yes it showed me something I didn’t expect. It came as a learning. It brought me to understand what I as an individual need to avoid in the years to come.

I read somewhere and it does inspire me:

“Believe this, “the higher you go, the further you see” and also “the further you see the clearer you hear; “the clearer you hear, the wiser you become”!” 

Blessing or a lesson...!!!

How cruel is Life. How hurting it is when someone leaves you. How disappointing do things look.

Well.. all this does comes to our mind when people close to us move away.
Meeting new people, socializing, making new friends is all an ongoing process. We become close to some, move away from many and may not even remember a few. All this leaves an huge impact on us and our though process. But does meeting some or someone's departure make us stop living our life. Do we stop breathing. Do we stop waking up in the morning. Do we stop sleeping at night. NO..is the clear answer that practical people give to these questions.

People we meet come in our life for a purpose. Some are blessings while the others are a lesson. A person may be either of the two in one's life. A blessing for one may be a lesson for other. It all varies from person to person and is surely of great importance.
The process of learning starts from somewhere and it may be a person's presence or departure.

“In life, there are no mistakes, only lessons.” 
― Vic Johnson, Day by Day with James Allen

SECRET ADMIRER (FINAL PART)...!!!

….and yes i fell in love..!!!!

(BEAUTIFUL WORDS AREN'T THEY… )

Love, attraction, infatuation is something that we all go through at one phase of life. All these feelings seem to be all around us and we get captivated. The world seems the best place and people in it the most amazing creatures. (yes i call them creatures because they are very difficult to understand) Each one of us when in this phase of life feel that the world and this life is the best place to live in but believe me all that glitters in not gold. All the shining feeling soon comes to an end and the world becomes seems to be worst place and the people in the most disgusting creatures.

Same thing happened with our heroine of the story, the so called feeling of love soon disappeared and hatred took its place. The place where she loved going soon become a place which she most hated going. She felt a urge to run away where no one can ask her how it all went about. There was once a time when she hated when her "admiration" didn't come to the office but soon she started this feeling better as his presence brought goose-bumps in her stomach.

Things took a U-turn in her life. She was forced to think about her feelings for this one person who all of a sudden became so important that his decisions and choices affected her so much. 

After a lot of introspection, she realized that love and admiration are great feelings but there is no point sacrificing everything just for nothing. A person who cannot respect you and your feelings at the correct time doesn't deserve to be the one to be shown all your love. Being strong enough, she took the decisions to move on in life and move away from things that have been hurting. Soon came the time when this decision of hers came into play.

Admiration that was once formed without knowing anything about the other person can obviously not go away that easily but it can be respected. It can be nurtured to make yourself more strong and understanding the physics of living happily. Grudges and pain can be kept in the heart and lead to our own destruction or people can be forgiven and we can move forward with a head held high. 

At some point we do have realization that are necessary in life and can surely be a turning point in life.

"Making someone a part of your life is amazing but it is indeed beautiful if you are a part of the same person's life."

This person will always be special to her and his place will surely never be taken by anybody else but the lessons he has unintentionally taught her will always remain by her side even though she is moving herself away and she will be his "SECRET ADMIRER" and yes she had fallen in Love…!!!

Its You and Only You...!!!

It is often said, "All that glitters is not gold..!!! " But it often takes time to understand this fact. We assume that nothing can make us hamper our belief on the things that matter a lot in our lives. We start to believe that we can get everything that we desire but its long before this misconception comes to an end.

A person best companion is his own self. We may fall in love, have friendships and wish to secure our relations but does these things last long. There comes a time when we need to decide that what is the foremost priority in our life, what is that cannot wait and what is that can be neglected.

Its the law of nature that anything that gets to a peak has to come down. Each individual faces a dilemma in his/her life and this makes us think as to what is correct and what is not.

Often the things of most importance takes a back seat in life and we focus on things that can are just diverting us from the actual path.Each one of us have a aim in life and this aim varies from person to person, sooner or later we come to understand this aim and we realize that every action and situation that occurred in our life was something that was trying to make us understand that aim.

The things we need to learn are always learned and it takes its own time to settle in properly. 

As it can be truly said that " Lessons of life will be repeated till they are properly learned..!!!"