WHO M I ???

I was once asked "What are YOU...??? What classifies and designs YOU...??? What is that influences YOU...??? What is that makes you what you are today..??

That was the time I was forced to think on the questions that just came by and I couldn't find a suitable answer. But today is the time that i have realized a perfect answer to these questions.

Its something that i wish to share here.

Something that influenced me and made me more firm on my roadmap of life.

So here it goes...

Life is about Experiment...!!!

Sometimes in life we face the confusion as to which path to follow. We get influenced by people and their thoughts make us doubt on our beliefs of life. But is this permanent? Are we really changing by what people show us? Or is our own roadmap of life the correct one for us.

Well all this depends on how early we disillusion ourself, on how early we accept the fact that its our own nature and beliefs that make us what we are in real. 

The change in human nature is the ultimate result of influence which is only temporary. This change may seem a major alteration in the road maps of life but in real these changes are just the part of disillusions that occur to make us more strong on our beliefs. These are just big stones that help us set milestones for us and a major part of self-growth. It helps us mostly to know ourself and set our priorities and also to make a set of guidelines or a manual of things that we chose to walk in life with.

I can better quote it by saying that Its better for us to be ourself because everyone else is already taken and believe me this is well experienced and experimented thing by me personally. You may like being like someone or like to copy someone but this is just gone with the wind. It may buy you happiness for a period of time but in the end its only you and your real nature that defines you and the source of ultimate happiness.

Now the question that arises is should we not get influenced by people? If we chose to then surely we lose a part of ourself and if chose not to then we may detach ourself from the best changes for us. So, to help ourself we need to experiment. We need to try it out but make ourself flexible enough so that if it seems to be giving bad results then we are able to come back into the original part of us (it may take a bit of time though but its worth it). 

Mark my words when you get back to yourself its gonna be more fun filled feeling. You'll feel more wise, more secure, more mature and part of you will sit in the corner having your favorite slush or the best cup of coffee. It is going to give you the feeling of being awesome if not perfect and your life will surely invite more of adventure, more of awesomeness and itself attract a lot of positive energy.

Life is about changes. Life is about experiments. Life is about Realizations.

PS: This is a short report on my personal realization that i sought from my own experiment.

Life As I See It...!!!

Years pass, memories retain… both sweet and sour and with all memories we have to live life… sustain happiness and also live through it all. 

Yes, this is all about Life and how i see it..

We all create our road maps in life, our beliefs and our lifestyles and yet at some times we feel that we have been wrong all along. We make changes in our maps and start living again. But as more time passes, there happen to be more changes in our maps and in the end we find that we have complete different map from the actual blueprint we created. This is something that can be both encouraging and devastating.

Life gives us challenges, we need to face them, not run from them. It is what actually makes us strong. Behind what every person thinks and believes is only coz of these challenges and how we mould ourselves after each one of it. As is comically said " If life throws lemons at you then find someone with a vodka and have a great party..!!" But to add to it, don't get use to this vodka.

To make life worth it, all you need is to change our outlook on life. It is on us how we shape the things that life is throwing on us, we let them fall, we hit them back or catch them to make the best out of it.

To let go is a tough task and tougher when we don't understand the positiveness of letting go. There are always instincts that tell when is the time to let go and if we try to procrastinate then surely it is gonna be one thing that will take a lot of time to overcome.

So embrace all that what comes to you in life else it will embrace you and that though very badly.

This is Life as how I see it. Experiences and memories are all the bridge that helps to move along in this mysterious world and its unto us as to how much we explore it.