Where fairy tales ends.. real life begins..!!!

Where fairy tales ends.. real life begins..!!!

This is one of the quotes that I truly believe in life. Fairy tales are one thing that mostly all of us have read, heard or seen and sometimes unconsciously we start dreaming of a life that is shown to us in these tales but they misguide us and also works as a heart breaking experience for many of us who are not able to realize the difference between fairy tales and reality.

Life's beautiful if you know how to look at the beauty of it. It may give us pain, pleasure, happiness and sorrows but this is altogether what life is all about. The happy endings in fairy tales is not always as happy as they seem to be and also it leads us into a world of misconceptions about life. Believe me if Life turns out to be fairy tale then we ourselves are gonna be the first ones wanting to be out of it. The ups and downs in life proves that we are still alive and shows us what real life is and also that we are not living in the world of dreams and fairies. After all, all have been bedtime stories and stories for kids.

Tales like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Beauty and the Beast, etc are just imprudent and also don't resemble the real life we live in. Happiness comes and is  always adored and welcomed with open arms and so does sadness and sorrow comes but it may not be welcomed but it does not stop neither can it be ignored or left unfelt. The real happiness can only be experienced after we know how pain and sorrow feels.

Each new day brings with it the new excitement and also a sense of fulfillment if we enjoy it. To live each day to its fullest and get the best of everything is something that is not that easy but surely not that tough as it may seem. Accept the reality and not live the life of fairies is what we need to understand. Things that seem to be the prettiest may not turn out to be alluring.

Real life is more exciting and contending than fairy tales and the faster we understand this, the better it is for us.

The distinction between tales and real life is a must to know and when we get to know it, then believe real life is more appealing to us and the more we live it, the better it becomes.

Two aspects of Life..!!!

Well, today i am here writing about one more of my realizations which i just had some time back and i guess i am gonna make it a stepping stone in my career.

While we are grow up and complete our studies, we all have that one aim to be successful in life, we aim for something good, we aim to have a bright career and get settled with a high salary and a good post, etc etc etc.

But is this really possible at a early stage? Is it possible to be successful in everything you do and get excellent results out of it.? Is it possible to be right always?

We all enter a so called professional life of ours and in a long time run we may get involved with people in more than professional ways and here is the biggest flaw. Here starts the confusion. Here begins a big downfall. You mix your personal and professional life and that though very badly (Something that i made a note of at the initial stage.. DONT MIX THEM, but unfortunately did it too). We are humans and tend to forget things that we think for ourself. This is but obvious that when you have a good relation with someone, you will feel hurt if he/she points you out for something that doesn't seem to be a mistake at a large. Unconsciously you have a hope that these people can give you some sort of security or even may help you at hard times. But believe me.. YOU ARE WRONG.

You are in biggest state of illusion if you have any such thing in your mind and trust me it makes you sick.

You can have any sort of personal relation with anyone but never ever expect that anyone is gonna stand by your side and protect you even if you are dying. Here comes the time when people who become attached to you in more than a professional way will prove that its the PROFESSIONAL WORLD. Your problems are your own. And believe me for one thing that the rules that any organization may have, can change according to the people who have the power.

Never display your feelings, only portray your attitude is the new guru mantra. 

People trust me, things seem perfect when you understand the difference between these two aspects of the same coin. It gets hard and hard it is for me at present just because i mixed them both but now is  high time in life when the two aspects move on smoothly just as they should be. 

Cheers to the new feel.. Cheers to the new realization and cheers to the respect of positions.