Blessed Indeed...!!!

"People come and go in your life but only very few leave a footprint in your heart…!!! "

We meet many people of every sort in our life but we get attached to only a few, who indeed become special to us in just a small amount of time. The presence of such people is always a source of joy and contentment to us. I too have such a person in my life, to whom i dedicate this post of mine as its his birthday today. 

We all desire for some qualities in the special ones in our life but all these are just mere things that seem to be of no more importance when you find a perfect person with whom you can share your thoughts and yourself. You may be different in caste, culture and thoughts but the little bond that ties two people together is above everything else.

It takes times for any relation to blossom and it is indeed difficult when you are unable to give that time as your special one cannot be close to you. Such a case is surely heartbreaking. But this is not the end as some people feel it is. It is just the beginning of the understanding that is needed in any relation. You start cherishing the small time you spend, the little talks to have, you care unconditionally and more over you believe and the more you believe the more you feel the worth of it.

A very similar thing is there with me. A friend cum support, always there by my side in just a small span of time. The moment when we thought to make our bond stronger and stability in our friendship was the time when he had to go away from me. Difficult it is for us but also its testing our patience and our commitment to the great bond we share. The level of maturity and clarity of thought is just one thing that has made me adore him. 

The distances between us is going to a big one and we know it but this is what makes us cherish even our fights let alone the good times.

Blessed to have a friend like him. He is surely going to be great partner and also i always wish the best for him. Happiness and success is all I pray for him.

“Friends come into our lives and friends leave our lives. But friends never leave our hearts. And best friends always get to stay in the best places in our hearts.”

MISTAKES...!!!

Each one of us make mistakes in life and their happens to be a time when we feel guilty and hate ourselves for these mistakes, but is making mistakes a crime or a sin. Not at all. Making mistakes is a part of growing, part of learning and surely a part of realizing.
We as individuals have no right to judge anyone or even our own self but the type of mistakes we make. Its just a stepping stone. If we keep the guilt of a mistake then we can never look at the new horizons it provides to us.

"Make mistakes.. learn from them but never keep the burden of it... coz it is going to hunch your back for sure...!!! "

SECRET ADMIRER (Part 2)

"One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving."
-Paulo Coelho

Days pass, weather change and so do people and their feelings but in our story the admiration of Khusboo is still at a peak. Though, there is a difference now. She has understood that she has to accept the reality and let go of the few things. 

As months passed and the year came to an end, Khusboo was in an unstable state of mind. Small things started hurting her and soon she become vulnerable. The flair of the relation had already subsided from one end and she started feeling that she was a worthless asset in everyone's life. She decided that she will ignore and forget her "admiration" and things will soon be normal for her, but this did not happen. Day in and day out it became heart breaking for her to work in the office. Daily she would be hurt and daily she would feel like crying her eyes out. Unluckily, she reached a point where her tears had also dried up. Many ups and downs took place in her personal life which she wanted to share with her "Admiration" but he seem to never understand her need and even she could not speak out. She started hating herself for ever being close to him and also loathed going to her office.

The pain that she faced started affecting her health and all because of one reason that she hated herself. Unaware of the consequences, she was ignored herself completely and was only wanting to leave the place so that she could forget him and her admiration. But, lucky are those who are able to do such things and she was not that lucky. No option was coming her way. All that happened that her admiration grew and is still growing both personally and professionally.

Now was the time to take a hard decision for her betterment. She decided that she needs to ignore him personally and maintain just a formal professional relation. This seemed very difficult at first but she had no other option. She felt broken. It seemed that he was his only friend but she was wrong, of-course. The problem was that she was close to him and the only thing that was making her a victim was her own thoughts. She gathered courage and tried doing what she wanted.

Soon, she realized that the mantra of happiness lies in herself. She was happy when their friendship grew but was unhappy when the relation declined (same happens in any sort of relation), so why not to accept the reality and face it. Embrace whatever was coming her way. She cherished the small talks that came their way, the small smiles that passed between them and most importantly the time they had spent together. Nothing is permanent and she realized it. Everything that goes high up has to come down at sometime, may it be a thing or a relation.

Its been quite a time that they both know each other. She still remembers the first day she saw him. She remembered the look that made her admire him. Her care and warmth for the relation has grown subsequently. She understands that life is about loving and admiring things that come your way without expecting anything in return. All said and done, she still respects him and admires him and will always be his SECRET ADMIRER. After all, it was her and her heart which admired him.