Unspoken Love...!!!

Eyes closed.. cold wind touching the cheeks.. hair flying up with the wind... ears becoming numb with the chilling wind but the whole body has the warmth of the beloved's hug. 

Slowly the bike keeps moving up and down the hill as he drives. The more colder the wind gets, the tighter is her hug. She breaths in the air and turns and kisses his neck. The touch of her lips on the back of his neck sends out a shivers down his spine. He keeps driving. Her touch giving him more confidence to cross the chill. He keeps driving even though he is numb with the cold and her weight. 

She feels a drop of rain on her cheek, it slowly moves down her cheek and clings to the side of her lips. She licks it up and taste the first drop of rain. As they move forward more droplets fall over them bringing them even more close and their embrace becomes even more strong.

She wants to stop. He doesn't want to slow down.

She whispers to him. He nodes.

He slows down. Her grip becomes more firm.

They approach a small corner tea stall and he finally stops. She gets down and runs to find shelter. He joins her. She clings to him. He holds her tight.

Sipping the tea, their eyes meet. 

Lots of unspoken words.. many unexplained feelings..!!!

She is cold, he is tired. 

They hug each other to never leave.

They share a lot in that one minute. The embrace said it all, explained why they were together and what they had between them.

A lot can be spoken without words. To express you don't always need words.

" Silence speaks when words can't..!!!"

You create your own WHIRLPOOL...!!!

A few moments can change your life. 

You never know who you meet in life and what role they play in structuring your life. 

It's all a whirlpool. 

Once you enter into it.. you cannot predict when you will come out. The events inside is something that are unplanned and will fascinate you by their beauty. The unexpectedness of these events make it even more interesting to live into them.

Round and round the whirlpool moves and with it moves the graph of excitement. 

Hundred of things in a single moment and all we should do is live them.

Life has a lot to give if we know how to take. 

Many of us get drowned in these events of life. Some because of the happiness they give and some because of the pain. But they all have a pleasure in its own way. 

The thoughts inside one's head are never less than this. They are enough to create a life which can be disastrous to ourself or good enough to make a change in our destiny.

To think about this is what I leave it on you now.

THINK...!!! THINK...!! 

Live in your WHIRLPOOL...!!

No Excuses.. Only Results...!!!

Results are the outcome of hardwork and excuses are a outcome of procrastination.

To push yourself harder and reach the heights is something that comes from determination, will power and a lot of hardwork. If we keep trying to find ways to avoid it, the only thing we end up is with excuses. A lot of people including me get irritated or pissed off at times when we don't get the results we desire. Sometimes we even try to get away with things and come up with all sort of excuses. But internally we know that what we never tried that hard.

The one giving excuses may not realise that he is harming himself as this soon becomes a habit and this is surely not a good one.

Results or Excuses is what we decide for ourselves. Both cannot be together. One of them is what we chose and deliver.

It's always our choice of what we accept and desire that makes us what we are. 

Thinking about excuses I just came around with this great quote:

“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.” 
― Jordan Belfort

Feel a bit more...!!!

So True..!!!

Most of the problems and pain people feel is because they think too much about it and end up in a pain that gets unbearable for them to bear.

The world is beautiful place to live in. There are lots of things that each of us face in our day to day lives. The problem comes when we let these things get over our minds and create a place for them into our thoughts. 

Our thoughts determine our state of living...!!!

The more negative we think, the more we trouble ourself.

The more positive we think, the more happy we are.

I believe that if a person takes out 10 mins a day to feel the moment in which he/she lives and just cherish that moment to its best then its enough to keep out of stress. Slowly, if we can make it a habit to think less and feel more then there would be no unnecessary pain. 

The morning sun, the sunset, the moon each have its own beauty and each signify itself. But if they trouble themselves by thinking about the shine of others they themselves will lose what they have to give. The best of us lies when we feel and keep ourselves in the present.

Be brave to say a Goodbye...!!!

Today I write this blog with mixed emotions. This is a learning and that's the reason I am writing it down.
When we move out from our native place in search of living and start a new life in a new city, the people we meet have a great impact on our lives. It matters a lot how we interact and jell up with the crowd. The same happened with me when I moved to Bangalore. The first of many people I met were the one's from the place I started working. Being in IT industry you don't expect people to be very helpful to you and neither did I expect that. Initial days were very tough, especially when you have no clue of the local language. It took some 2 months to make friends or at least start talking to people and make them realize your presence.
You may have heard life is cruel, Yes, It is cruel as times. But its worth it.
Trying to understand the people around you is one of the most difficult tasks. When you have no freaking idea what people on the table are talking because you don't understand the language, then yes life seems cruel.

Anyways, finally my communication started with people and I made a few friends. Life came on track after some 6 months. Work is enjoyed when people you work with are fine and so happened with me. I worked with some decent people.

Today, when I bid farewell to the organization, I was excited about my new endeavor, but also felt a moment where I realized I wont be coming back to this place and work with my same team, have lunch with my buddies. Moving on is important. But what matters is how gracefully you move on.

Everyday is a Second chance...!!!

We all look for chances… chances to grow.. chances to advance ourself into a better person.. chances to make the best of everything and truly each day is a new chance to build the best of us.

We sometimes feel that things didn’t go the way we wanted or the way we planned. We wait for chances to do the best. But isn’t it true that its us who create the chances. Directly or indirectly we are the ones who take steps for the chances to appear. Its just the way we perceive things.

One of the good quotes I read:

“Look on every exit as being an entrance somewhere else.”  

Happiness and Success... How you see it...??

Your happiness and Success lies within you..!!!

One's perception about things is what leads him to the edge of happiness and success. Very few people have the insight to see the good even in bad... to take failure as stepping stones to success. Most of us including me get disappointed and depressed when we see things going opposite to what we wanted. 

The real happiness lies within our self  and on how we treat our self. 

Success comes to those who know the pain of failure and use that pain as the learning step and move forward with it. Those who let the pain get over them our the ones who mostly never tend to come out of it.

The capability to see the best in the worst is the true strength of the a person. 

On this note, all I would say is 

" Be the reason for your own happiness...!!!"

A day well spent...!! :)

Its a bright day.. awesome weather... just the perfect one to go on a walk and feel the air. So I just thought to tighten up my clothes and go out for a little stroll. 

Out on the roads I see a puddles of water.. splashing into them just reminds me of my childhood days when jumping into them used to the most ultimate fun. Walking ahead I come to halt at the signal which is on my way to a park which was my destination. Looking around I felt how our lives have changed. 

How earlier we use to wait for the monsoons and the rains so that we can feel the rain.. feel the drops.. but now we wait for the rains to stop so that we can move out to complete our unfinished and pending tasks. How earlier we use to love getting drenched in rain and now he wait to avoid getting drenched. How a sunny day use to bring positive energies and now sunny days make us stay indoors. 

Well... leaving all my thoughts aside I walked along the road to reach my destination. To my astonishment I only saw all elderly people and just a few teenagers. Some of them were in mid of some yoga while others were busy in their own thoughts. I kept walking in the park to observe more people and enjoy the beauty of the weather while I rarely get to feel in the weekdays, when I am caught inside in the office with artificial air.

Moving on I decided to get seated on bench from where I could catch the glimpse of mostly all the people in that park. 

Being there for some time made me realize many more things. Starting with the change in the life in few years to the beauty of the weather and how I miss it. Going down the memory lane, I felt a bit nostalgic but I tried coming out of that and wanted to cherish the moment I am in.

An hour passed and I just didn't realize it. It started drizzling and each drop made me feel peaceful. More than I had felt in last few days. I just loved it and on the way back to my place I only felt it was a day well spent.

PS:  The motive of this post is to emphasize on the need of spending time amidst nature.

Rain makes everything Beautiful...!!!

Tip... tip... tip... tip... tip... and the drops of rain flow down from the forehead... slowly towards the eyes and then touching the cheeks gently moving towards the lips.. and then you feel the wetness of each drop and the touch of each drop as a beautiful touch of the lover. Feeling the rain and its each drops is just an out of the world feel for me.

Rain.. thunder.. strong wind... and heavy rain after that is something many of us cherish. It makes us realize the beauty of nature more deeply. The thirst of the Earth gets relived and the fragrance of mother Earth just makes all the rain-lovers nostalgic. The weather takes an amazing turn with the arrival of monsoons and everyone is relived from the burning sun and the heat is left behind.

Sitting near the window and writing this post makes me feel love rain even more. Drops that clung on the end of the leaves.. drops that slowly trip down from the window sill.. drops that directly embrace the Earth.. each of them have their own beauty.

PS: Dancing in the rain is something that I feel like doing right now.

Stay Cool...!!!

Chill mar...!! Stay cool...!!

These terms we often quote to our self and others.

How hard it is to stay calm in situations of utter panic. We all plan things and never think of a backup or an alternate solution. We are too stuck in the old mindset of things to work in one go. Plan is something that is the outcome of our thoughts and we generally don't even consider the whole situation or problem. So, if our plan fails we only need to more carefully plan next time. 

The best mantra:

"Stay Cool and Chill Out...!!!" 

Stop wishing... Keep Doing...!!!!

It brings a smile on your face when you aare recognized for the work you did, for the challenges you faced, for the battles you fought. It gives immense pleasure to see someone's trust on you and someone relying on you. The feeling is amazing. But there is something even more important and that is standing with a head held high in front of yourself. If you feel good enough of yourself for your work then other's come secondary.

The struggles we face today give us strength that need in the future. This spirit of moving on in whatever conditions is what makes you the real hero.
Many times we wont have our backs patted by others but that is the time we need to pat our own backs, cheer of yourself, treat us and party hard.
Motivation is something that we all need to move forward and what can be a bigger motivation than to prove yourself. This only seems to be possible when you know your own worth and you believe in yourself. People might not understand your importance doesn't mean that you are not important.

Stop wishing... Keep doing..
You will touch the highest peak for sure.
This is what I have started believing and realized after a few sadist days-

"Look through the clouds and you will see a bright sun waiting behind...!!!"

Lesson learned in daily life..!!!

Sitting in office in my cubicle with headsets plugged in reminds me a lot of things today. Many incidences come randomly in my thoughts and I wish to write all of them down and get the best out of each. Its not possible though as I have few tasks to complete. But I definately got a good lesson from the series of recent events.
We all go through extreme and various conditions and meet a variety of people. Each person has its own qualities. But some of things mayn’t be what we expect to deal with in normal daily life. I too met one such person dealing with whom pissed me off initially but it has given me a lot of understanding about my self and human behaviour.
I believe that most of us get annoyed if some pokes his nose in our work constantly, if someone screws down your work, if someone affects our capabilities and raises a finger on us (if its not for a good) and a lot of other things that effects our peace of mind. This might be personal or professional but it does impact us a lot. 

I have generally heard that position brings calmness in people. The higher you go, the softer you become.
You tend to understand people and your experiences makes you calmer and peaceful.
but what if the case is extremely opposite. I don’t tend to point at anyone but yes it showed me something I didn’t expect. It came as a learning. It brought me to understand what I as an individual need to avoid in the years to come.

I read somewhere and it does inspire me:

“Believe this, “the higher you go, the further you see” and also “the further you see the clearer you hear; “the clearer you hear, the wiser you become”!” 

Is it really an act of maturity ??

The above image and its Quote is something that mostly all of us our familiar to and most of us go through that face of life.

Trying to hide your feelings and pretending like nothing is wrong...!!!

It might be considered as an act of maturity by many but I personally don't feel that. If we are mature, we will not be hiding our feelings instead we'll be facing them. 

Go ahead people.. face it straight...!!!

Don't neglect and ignore..!!!

Cherish it..!!!

No Trust = No Relationship

Necessity of each relation is Trust. The basic foundation of each and every relation, may it be friendship, love, employee-employer or a married couple, is TRUST. We look forward or are dependent of anyone for anything is only because we have some sort of trust and confidence on that person. The bond between two individuals can only be strong if there is Trust in it.

Trust is nothing that can flourish in a day or two but it takes time to establish. Its asks for ample amount of time for this Trust to grow and make an unbreakable bond. 

When two people stay together, near and close, it is easy to communicate and clear conversations but once distances grow and people our apart then one of the biggest issue is lack of trust of DOUBT.

How hard it becomes when the the huge tower of any relationship shivers because the foundation of trust is missing. If the bricks are of lies then no one can save the house from collapsing.

Sooner or later all of us understand the importance of trust and the negativity that doubts bring into relationship. Distant relationship stay strong if the commitment and trust is pure enough. Its very difficult to accept someone once the trust breaks and also it becomes a misery to even think about the betrayal.

“All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust.” 

Blessing or a lesson...!!!

How cruel is Life. How hurting it is when someone leaves you. How disappointing do things look.

Well.. all this does comes to our mind when people close to us move away.
Meeting new people, socializing, making new friends is all an ongoing process. We become close to some, move away from many and may not even remember a few. All this leaves an huge impact on us and our though process. But does meeting some or someone's departure make us stop living our life. Do we stop breathing. Do we stop waking up in the morning. Do we stop sleeping at night. NO..is the clear answer that practical people give to these questions.

People we meet come in our life for a purpose. Some are blessings while the others are a lesson. A person may be either of the two in one's life. A blessing for one may be a lesson for other. It all varies from person to person and is surely of great importance.
The process of learning starts from somewhere and it may be a person's presence or departure.

“In life, there are no mistakes, only lessons.” 
― Vic Johnson, Day by Day with James Allen

To the Almighty...!!!

Life is about Adventure...!!!

I see many people complaining about life being tough.

People often see difficulties as pain. They never see the positive side of it.

Its becomes very hard to do something out of the box and move out of your comfort zone. We all tend to play safe. "Why Risk" is what we all generally feel.

But will life be fun without risk, without adventure. Would it be worth if life would have been easy. If there would have been nothing to fight for, nothing to achieve, nothing to dream about. I personally feel Life would have been really boring if things would have been simple.

I just love when I do something beyond what I expected. I feel satisfied when I achieve my goals. I feel happy when I do things that I never thought I would be able to do.

Life is fun only when we deal with the problems. The adventure makes us alive.

Live Life.. Love Life...!!!