Travel- A new chapter in the book of experience...!!!

Buenos dias, A very Good morning
Most of the people would be thinking why I am talking in Spanish. Well that's because I am here in Mexico experiencing a new chapter in the book of my life.
I travelled from India to Mexico a week back. Capturing the various sites and making memories here, I realise that Monterrey (the city from where I write now) looks so like Dehradun (my hometown).

These vallies are actually taking away my breath. The sunset is just so beautiful with a few final rays touching the sky covering the peaks.


A new country, a new city, new language and a new experience. Travel is the one of the most important aspect in the learnings of life. Variety of experiences are all added in the book of experience in a single shot. One gets to learn to know and understand people and various cultures. People all across the globe are same, the only thing that varies are the looks, way of living and defiantly the though process (the major thing that marks us different).

All said and done, its just the beginning of this new chapter, any new realisation in this journey will make its way here, till then "Adios" :)

Do It Anyway...!!! By- Mother Teresa

Life's greatest blessing...!!!

Its long since I wrote anything. So today I am just gonna write what is I have realised in a past few months when I was away in a hustle bustle of life.
Life gives you enough reasons to cry and it also give you plenty of reasons to laugh.

Its really hard when you lose a loved one and all of a sudden life changes. It feels so empty.
We don't realise the value of people and especially our family. We always take them as granted. There are times we ignore them or get pissed off with them due to various reasons. But the time we lose them is the time we realise what a big mistake we made.
A lot many of us stay away from our parents and grandparents. We speak to them in months and visit them in years maybe. But is that really something we should be doing? I leave it to you to answer.
What harm is it to give them a call and speak to them for a few minutes. How much does it takes to wish them a Good-morning. After all, they are the ones because of whom we are here. Some people won't agree with me and I won't argue over it for sure.

I personally have a lot of arguments with my parents but in the end I know their value in my life and how important it is for me to understand their point of view. 

I have spent days thinking and analysing what impact it has on me and I just know it now. 

I am incomplete without them and to share my thoughts with them makes me more powerful.

The strength that I receive when I know they are behind me as my backbone is just tremendous.

I am what I am because of them today. :)

Family is where Life begins and Love never ends...!!!

The most important thing in the world is family and love. - John Wooden

Inner Peace- A necessity in life...!!!

Anger on the face, irritation in the voice, sadness in the eyes and deep inside the soul that cries. This is what happens when you lose inner peace.
Many of us don't even realise when we come to face this state in life. We think its a normal and some external factors are just bothering us. Its true and most of the time it is because of someone else. The fact that life is cruel and so are the people is the one I personally believe to be very true.

The saddest part is its mostly because of "SOMEONE ELSE" that such a situation occurs.
The question that generally occurs to me is "Why is that we get so involved with others that their actions harm us ? " Its hard to answer this as we all are humans and all of us have feelings. But in some cases actions of some random people also end up disturbing us.

This is the time of retrospection when we need to set the priorities and make our own self understand that its us who has to control on who and how things affect us.
Never let the behaviour of others disturb the peace of your mind...!!! Your peace is what depends on yourself. Now the thought that comes in my mind is "how to keep your inner peace intact? " The best answer that cones to my mind is "IGNORE". Just ignore the things that doesn't matter in life and things that act as a distraction in your life. Its definitely not that easy but it surely is very important. The path to inner peace starts from this learning.
This takes time and a lot of time. Its a struggle in the beginning but it is very important. Start enjoying your own company and make sure you live it to the fullest and cherish it...!!!!

You are unique and so are your goals...!!!

A lot of times there are things and events that hurt us as we compare ourself with some people. We try to get what others received without even once thinking that we are not the ones who actually want those things. Each one of us have different motives in life and not everything is that we should be aiming to achieve. A focus on a single target makes life easy and more understandable. 

" I might be good at some thing and you might be perfect with the other..!!!"

Does this mean I need to be perfect at what you are do. NO. I need to get perfect with things which are important in my life and not in yours. ;) 

Setting priorities and making sure they are your targets is one of the foremost things a person should target. Many of us wander around and get diverted from the actual path just because we see some one else doing something. 

We need not be perfect in things we like or things we do but if we give our best then the results will surely be outstanding ( I say this from experience) . 

When we achieve things that we actually want in life and the ones we have always been targeting then no-one can take away the satisfaction we get. 

"You are unique and so are your goals...!!!"

Don't waste your time and energy trying to compare yourself and running behind things that never mattered in your life. Focus on your goals and your acheievements. They are the ones that matter in life, in your life.

STRESS LESS

God could not be everywhere and therefore he made MOTHERS...!!!

It was a silent night. The moon was bright and sky was clear. In the far corner suddenly a cry was heard, a cry of a baby and followed it a lullaby. The sweet melody of a mother singing to her kid was the sweetest thing that was heard in that silent night.

Mother, a lady who is the reason of your existence in this world. She bore you in her womb with all the pain and still had a smile on her face. The tears of pain turns into tears of happiness when she saw you  for the first time. From tying diapers to feeding you, she is the one who never gets tired.From making your bed to the tiffin in the morning, she is the one always upright. She is the reason for your warm food to the cold milk that you always liked. And yet, she is the one you ignore at times.

The love of a mother is unconditional. For everything that she does, it can never be repaid. 

Each individual is different but the roots come from the learnings and culture that the mother in cultivates in her kids. She sees her image in them. You are a part of her.

Today I realise the importance of my mother and her existence in my life even more, when I am sitting miles away from her writing this.

"Always love your mother as you will never get another...!!!"