Stop wishing... Keep Doing...!!!!

It brings a smile on your face when you aare recognized for the work you did, for the challenges you faced, for the battles you fought. It gives immense pleasure to see someone's trust on you and someone relying on you. The feeling is amazing. But there is something even more important and that is standing with a head held high in front of yourself. If you feel good enough of yourself for your work then other's come secondary.

The struggles we face today give us strength that need in the future. This spirit of moving on in whatever conditions is what makes you the real hero.
Many times we wont have our backs patted by others but that is the time we need to pat our own backs, cheer of yourself, treat us and party hard.
Motivation is something that we all need to move forward and what can be a bigger motivation than to prove yourself. This only seems to be possible when you know your own worth and you believe in yourself. People might not understand your importance doesn't mean that you are not important.

Stop wishing... Keep doing..
You will touch the highest peak for sure.
This is what I have started believing and realized after a few sadist days-

"Look through the clouds and you will see a bright sun waiting behind...!!!"

Lesson learned in daily life..!!!

Sitting in office in my cubicle with headsets plugged in reminds me a lot of things today. Many incidences come randomly in my thoughts and I wish to write all of them down and get the best out of each. Its not possible though as I have few tasks to complete. But I definately got a good lesson from the series of recent events.
We all go through extreme and various conditions and meet a variety of people. Each person has its own qualities. But some of things mayn’t be what we expect to deal with in normal daily life. I too met one such person dealing with whom pissed me off initially but it has given me a lot of understanding about my self and human behaviour.
I believe that most of us get annoyed if some pokes his nose in our work constantly, if someone screws down your work, if someone affects our capabilities and raises a finger on us (if its not for a good) and a lot of other things that effects our peace of mind. This might be personal or professional but it does impact us a lot. 

I have generally heard that position brings calmness in people. The higher you go, the softer you become.
You tend to understand people and your experiences makes you calmer and peaceful.
but what if the case is extremely opposite. I don’t tend to point at anyone but yes it showed me something I didn’t expect. It came as a learning. It brought me to understand what I as an individual need to avoid in the years to come.

I read somewhere and it does inspire me:

“Believe this, “the higher you go, the further you see” and also “the further you see the clearer you hear; “the clearer you hear, the wiser you become”!” 

Is it really an act of maturity ??

The above image and its Quote is something that mostly all of us our familiar to and most of us go through that face of life.

Trying to hide your feelings and pretending like nothing is wrong...!!!

It might be considered as an act of maturity by many but I personally don't feel that. If we are mature, we will not be hiding our feelings instead we'll be facing them. 

Go ahead people.. face it straight...!!!

Don't neglect and ignore..!!!

Cherish it..!!!

No Trust = No Relationship

Necessity of each relation is Trust. The basic foundation of each and every relation, may it be friendship, love, employee-employer or a married couple, is TRUST. We look forward or are dependent of anyone for anything is only because we have some sort of trust and confidence on that person. The bond between two individuals can only be strong if there is Trust in it.

Trust is nothing that can flourish in a day or two but it takes time to establish. Its asks for ample amount of time for this Trust to grow and make an unbreakable bond. 

When two people stay together, near and close, it is easy to communicate and clear conversations but once distances grow and people our apart then one of the biggest issue is lack of trust of DOUBT.

How hard it becomes when the the huge tower of any relationship shivers because the foundation of trust is missing. If the bricks are of lies then no one can save the house from collapsing.

Sooner or later all of us understand the importance of trust and the negativity that doubts bring into relationship. Distant relationship stay strong if the commitment and trust is pure enough. Its very difficult to accept someone once the trust breaks and also it becomes a misery to even think about the betrayal.

“All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust.” 

Blessing or a lesson...!!!

How cruel is Life. How hurting it is when someone leaves you. How disappointing do things look.

Well.. all this does comes to our mind when people close to us move away.
Meeting new people, socializing, making new friends is all an ongoing process. We become close to some, move away from many and may not even remember a few. All this leaves an huge impact on us and our though process. But does meeting some or someone's departure make us stop living our life. Do we stop breathing. Do we stop waking up in the morning. Do we stop sleeping at night. NO..is the clear answer that practical people give to these questions.

People we meet come in our life for a purpose. Some are blessings while the others are a lesson. A person may be either of the two in one's life. A blessing for one may be a lesson for other. It all varies from person to person and is surely of great importance.
The process of learning starts from somewhere and it may be a person's presence or departure.

“In life, there are no mistakes, only lessons.” 
― Vic Johnson, Day by Day with James Allen

To the Almighty...!!!

Life is about Adventure...!!!

I see many people complaining about life being tough.

People often see difficulties as pain. They never see the positive side of it.

Its becomes very hard to do something out of the box and move out of your comfort zone. We all tend to play safe. "Why Risk" is what we all generally feel.

But will life be fun without risk, without adventure. Would it be worth if life would have been easy. If there would have been nothing to fight for, nothing to achieve, nothing to dream about. I personally feel Life would have been really boring if things would have been simple.

I just love when I do something beyond what I expected. I feel satisfied when I achieve my goals. I feel happy when I do things that I never thought I would be able to do.

Life is fun only when we deal with the problems. The adventure makes us alive.

Live Life.. Love Life...!!!