Everyday is a Second chance...!!!

We all look for chances… chances to grow.. chances to advance ourself into a better person.. chances to make the best of everything and truly each day is a new chance to build the best of us.

We sometimes feel that things didn’t go the way we wanted or the way we planned. We wait for chances to do the best. But isn’t it true that its us who create the chances. Directly or indirectly we are the ones who take steps for the chances to appear. Its just the way we perceive things.

One of the good quotes I read:

“Look on every exit as being an entrance somewhere else.”  

Happiness and Success... How you see it...??

Your happiness and Success lies within you..!!!

One's perception about things is what leads him to the edge of happiness and success. Very few people have the insight to see the good even in bad... to take failure as stepping stones to success. Most of us including me get disappointed and depressed when we see things going opposite to what we wanted. 

The real happiness lies within our self  and on how we treat our self. 

Success comes to those who know the pain of failure and use that pain as the learning step and move forward with it. Those who let the pain get over them our the ones who mostly never tend to come out of it.

The capability to see the best in the worst is the true strength of the a person. 

On this note, all I would say is 

" Be the reason for your own happiness...!!!"

A day well spent...!! :)

Its a bright day.. awesome weather... just the perfect one to go on a walk and feel the air. So I just thought to tighten up my clothes and go out for a little stroll. 

Out on the roads I see a puddles of water.. splashing into them just reminds me of my childhood days when jumping into them used to the most ultimate fun. Walking ahead I come to halt at the signal which is on my way to a park which was my destination. Looking around I felt how our lives have changed. 

How earlier we use to wait for the monsoons and the rains so that we can feel the rain.. feel the drops.. but now we wait for the rains to stop so that we can move out to complete our unfinished and pending tasks. How earlier we use to love getting drenched in rain and now he wait to avoid getting drenched. How a sunny day use to bring positive energies and now sunny days make us stay indoors. 

Well... leaving all my thoughts aside I walked along the road to reach my destination. To my astonishment I only saw all elderly people and just a few teenagers. Some of them were in mid of some yoga while others were busy in their own thoughts. I kept walking in the park to observe more people and enjoy the beauty of the weather while I rarely get to feel in the weekdays, when I am caught inside in the office with artificial air.

Moving on I decided to get seated on bench from where I could catch the glimpse of mostly all the people in that park. 

Being there for some time made me realize many more things. Starting with the change in the life in few years to the beauty of the weather and how I miss it. Going down the memory lane, I felt a bit nostalgic but I tried coming out of that and wanted to cherish the moment I am in.

An hour passed and I just didn't realize it. It started drizzling and each drop made me feel peaceful. More than I had felt in last few days. I just loved it and on the way back to my place I only felt it was a day well spent.

PS:  The motive of this post is to emphasize on the need of spending time amidst nature.

Rain makes everything Beautiful...!!!

Tip... tip... tip... tip... tip... and the drops of rain flow down from the forehead... slowly towards the eyes and then touching the cheeks gently moving towards the lips.. and then you feel the wetness of each drop and the touch of each drop as a beautiful touch of the lover. Feeling the rain and its each drops is just an out of the world feel for me.

Rain.. thunder.. strong wind... and heavy rain after that is something many of us cherish. It makes us realize the beauty of nature more deeply. The thirst of the Earth gets relived and the fragrance of mother Earth just makes all the rain-lovers nostalgic. The weather takes an amazing turn with the arrival of monsoons and everyone is relived from the burning sun and the heat is left behind.

Sitting near the window and writing this post makes me feel love rain even more. Drops that clung on the end of the leaves.. drops that slowly trip down from the window sill.. drops that directly embrace the Earth.. each of them have their own beauty.

PS: Dancing in the rain is something that I feel like doing right now.

Stay Cool...!!!

Chill mar...!! Stay cool...!!

These terms we often quote to our self and others.

How hard it is to stay calm in situations of utter panic. We all plan things and never think of a backup or an alternate solution. We are too stuck in the old mindset of things to work in one go. Plan is something that is the outcome of our thoughts and we generally don't even consider the whole situation or problem. So, if our plan fails we only need to more carefully plan next time. 

The best mantra:

"Stay Cool and Chill Out...!!!" 

Stop wishing... Keep Doing...!!!!

It brings a smile on your face when you aare recognized for the work you did, for the challenges you faced, for the battles you fought. It gives immense pleasure to see someone's trust on you and someone relying on you. The feeling is amazing. But there is something even more important and that is standing with a head held high in front of yourself. If you feel good enough of yourself for your work then other's come secondary.

The struggles we face today give us strength that need in the future. This spirit of moving on in whatever conditions is what makes you the real hero.
Many times we wont have our backs patted by others but that is the time we need to pat our own backs, cheer of yourself, treat us and party hard.
Motivation is something that we all need to move forward and what can be a bigger motivation than to prove yourself. This only seems to be possible when you know your own worth and you believe in yourself. People might not understand your importance doesn't mean that you are not important.

Stop wishing... Keep doing..
You will touch the highest peak for sure.
This is what I have started believing and realized after a few sadist days-

"Look through the clouds and you will see a bright sun waiting behind...!!!"

Lesson learned in daily life..!!!

Sitting in office in my cubicle with headsets plugged in reminds me a lot of things today. Many incidences come randomly in my thoughts and I wish to write all of them down and get the best out of each. Its not possible though as I have few tasks to complete. But I definately got a good lesson from the series of recent events.
We all go through extreme and various conditions and meet a variety of people. Each person has its own qualities. But some of things mayn’t be what we expect to deal with in normal daily life. I too met one such person dealing with whom pissed me off initially but it has given me a lot of understanding about my self and human behaviour.
I believe that most of us get annoyed if some pokes his nose in our work constantly, if someone screws down your work, if someone affects our capabilities and raises a finger on us (if its not for a good) and a lot of other things that effects our peace of mind. This might be personal or professional but it does impact us a lot. 

I have generally heard that position brings calmness in people. The higher you go, the softer you become.
You tend to understand people and your experiences makes you calmer and peaceful.
but what if the case is extremely opposite. I don’t tend to point at anyone but yes it showed me something I didn’t expect. It came as a learning. It brought me to understand what I as an individual need to avoid in the years to come.

I read somewhere and it does inspire me:

“Believe this, “the higher you go, the further you see” and also “the further you see the clearer you hear; “the clearer you hear, the wiser you become”!”