Keep Moving.. Keep Learning..!!!

All of us dream of things that we want in our lives and also imagine a world of our dreams. We believe that life will some day give us things that we want and expect. We dream, we hope and we live.  Often these dreams may be unrealistic but we still dream of them. But to understand what the real world is all about we need to move out of our comfort zones and analyze the world. We need to take steps that lead us to learning and experiencing new things.

Well, I took the same step and relocated. New city, new people, new environment, new things and definitely new experiences. Life is all about realizing and learning. Isn't it?  Away from home, family and friends it becomes difficult to manage things initially but it is just a phase where we take time to settle but these are good learning days of life and here I am learning lots of things. Learning to be independent and manage myself that i thought would be easy but its not that easy. :P
Now here I am, 2 weeks in a new town somewhat happy and somewhat sad. But I will surely make it a great learning experience. Make moments. Live life and make it worth living. Life's amazing if you know how to make it amazing. Life's worth making realization if you know how to analyze and realize.

Finally, I would just like to add that Dream as much as you can. You never know when they just come live. :D

Words are mightier than Sword...!!!

Words often leads us into the unexpected and this is often true in case these words are written to describe one's feelings.

Often there are feelings that are hard to share with anyone. These may be the ones  of love, hurt, jealousy, care or something more intense that I am not aware of at present. These captivate us so badly at times that we chose a way to let these flow out and its none other than words. We write. Write just to let go from the pain that these feelings give us by staying within but does writing anything does justice to the real emotions behind it. Can we actually portray the feelings in our words properly?
I always felt that we do enough justice to our feelings by writing them out. But I just realized that writing something may give us freedom from the heaviness but if someone comes to read it and perceives it differently from the way we wrote it then it does pains more than ever.

I have often heard and read at places-
" Do not give explanations. Because your enemies wont believe it and your friends don't need it."
But if your friends only misunderstand your words, then wont a person feel the urge to give a proper explanation. And thus here comes once again the importance of words. The words we chose to explain or describe something needs to be chosen properly.
Simple things do get complicated when these words show their real magic. A simple thought can change the world often if it is illustrated using powerful words. Simple feelings can be twisted if improper words are used. A smooth going life can be devastated if your words are wrongly interpreted. Weird.. Isn't it? How just your words can change it all.

Strange is this world where the disclosure and sharing of feelings has become so hard that the feelings that come from deep within without thinking needs a lot of thought when it comes to displaying them.

SECRET ADMIRER (FINAL PART)...!!!

….and yes i fell in love..!!!!

(BEAUTIFUL WORDS AREN'T THEY… )

Love, attraction, infatuation is something that we all go through at one phase of life. All these feelings seem to be all around us and we get captivated. The world seems the best place and people in it the most amazing creatures. (yes i call them creatures because they are very difficult to understand) Each one of us when in this phase of life feel that the world and this life is the best place to live in but believe me all that glitters in not gold. All the shining feeling soon comes to an end and the world becomes seems to be worst place and the people in the most disgusting creatures.

Same thing happened with our heroine of the story, the so called feeling of love soon disappeared and hatred took its place. The place where she loved going soon become a place which she most hated going. She felt a urge to run away where no one can ask her how it all went about. There was once a time when she hated when her "admiration" didn't come to the office but soon she started this feeling better as his presence brought goose-bumps in her stomach.

Things took a U-turn in her life. She was forced to think about her feelings for this one person who all of a sudden became so important that his decisions and choices affected her so much. 

After a lot of introspection, she realized that love and admiration are great feelings but there is no point sacrificing everything just for nothing. A person who cannot respect you and your feelings at the correct time doesn't deserve to be the one to be shown all your love. Being strong enough, she took the decisions to move on in life and move away from things that have been hurting. Soon came the time when this decision of hers came into play.

Admiration that was once formed without knowing anything about the other person can obviously not go away that easily but it can be respected. It can be nurtured to make yourself more strong and understanding the physics of living happily. Grudges and pain can be kept in the heart and lead to our own destruction or people can be forgiven and we can move forward with a head held high. 

At some point we do have realization that are necessary in life and can surely be a turning point in life.

"Making someone a part of your life is amazing but it is indeed beautiful if you are a part of the same person's life."

This person will always be special to her and his place will surely never be taken by anybody else but the lessons he has unintentionally taught her will always remain by her side even though she is moving herself away and she will be his "SECRET ADMIRER" and yes she had fallen in Love…!!!

WHO M I ???

I was once asked "What are YOU...??? What classifies and designs YOU...??? What is that influences YOU...??? What is that makes you what you are today..??

That was the time I was forced to think on the questions that just came by and I couldn't find a suitable answer. But today is the time that i have realized a perfect answer to these questions.

Its something that i wish to share here.

Something that influenced me and made me more firm on my roadmap of life.

So here it goes...

Its You and Only You...!!!

It is often said, "All that glitters is not gold..!!! " But it often takes time to understand this fact. We assume that nothing can make us hamper our belief on the things that matter a lot in our lives. We start to believe that we can get everything that we desire but its long before this misconception comes to an end.

A person best companion is his own self. We may fall in love, have friendships and wish to secure our relations but does these things last long. There comes a time when we need to decide that what is the foremost priority in our life, what is that cannot wait and what is that can be neglected.

Its the law of nature that anything that gets to a peak has to come down. Each individual faces a dilemma in his/her life and this makes us think as to what is correct and what is not.

Often the things of most importance takes a back seat in life and we focus on things that can are just diverting us from the actual path.Each one of us have a aim in life and this aim varies from person to person, sooner or later we come to understand this aim and we realize that every action and situation that occurred in our life was something that was trying to make us understand that aim.

The things we need to learn are always learned and it takes its own time to settle in properly. 

As it can be truly said that " Lessons of life will be repeated till they are properly learned..!!!"

Beauty lies Within..!!!

We all at some point of time get attracted to people. We let these people influence and feel ourself captivated. This is generally the time when we feel that a beauty is making us spell - bound and the concerned person becomes fascinating all of a sudden. 

But is physical beauty the actual measure of attraction. Do we really call a person beautiful if he or she is physically attractive. 

Well, we may do so but its does not last forever. With time the physical beauty fades and also the attraction vanishes. Soon we realize that the outside beauty can only last for moments before the reality and beauty of one's soul becomes the priority.

What actually matters is the inner beauty and this genuinely makes a person BEAUTIFUL...!!!

I personally find the most beautiful things about a person almost never physical.

Wealthy is a person who.......

Just browsing through and I found this image in front of eyes and it made me stop scrolling down the page.

In the materialistic life of today, we all think that money can buy anything and everything but of course this is not true. Money is just a part of wealth but never the way to measure it. It is something that can make us buy and possess things of comfort and joy but never the things that create joy. Real joy and happiness comes from things that make our heart smile and not just our lips. The smile that is smiled with the heart is the one that is adored by all.

Owning and possessing things that cannot be bought by money is the real source of joy and thus shows the real wealth of a person

After all, its the people who gather around your coffin that matters and not the cost of the coffin.